Getting Closure From a Narcissist

closure and narcissists

Closure: Closure in a relationship involves honest, healthy, open-minded, non-judgmental communication about what went wrong and why the relationship is over. There is never closure in a Narcissistic relationship, because Narcissists are pathological liars. Many victims are left to get closure on their own, which they do by limiting contact “going gray rock” or ending contact “going no contact” with a Narcissist.  Many find support groups extremely helpful, as well as therapy.

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I am a self-help junkie, former advocate for victims of domestic violence, current psychiatric RN, as well as being a recovering victim of Narcissistic abuse.

My goal is to educate, empower, and inspire other abuse victims in understanding more about what happened to them (and how to prevent it from happening again), as well as how to go on and rebuild an amazing life.

Even though I have had a lot of "in the trenches" experience with highly manipulative people of all kinds, I consider myself to be a student of Narcissism, mindset, motivation, healing, and life in general, and am by no means an expert on any of these topics.

It's for these reasons, that when you are reading my information that I encourage you to hold to what helps, and let the rest go.
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I am a self-help junkie, former advocate for victims of domestic violence, current psychiatric RN, as well as being a recovering victim of Narcissistic abuse. My goal is to educate, empower, and inspire other abuse victims in understanding more about what happened to them (and how to prevent it from happening again), as well as how to go on and rebuild an amazing life. Even though I have had a lot of "in the trenches" experience with highly manipulative people of all kinds, I consider myself to be a student of Narcissism, mindset, motivation, healing, and life in general, and am by no means an expert on any of these topics. It's for these reasons, that when you are reading my information that I encourage you to hold to what helps, and let the rest go.

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  1. Hi! I stayed up till 2am last night watching your videos. And then promptly cried myself to sleep…..knowing that I made the right choice leaving my narcissistic husband. From the Love bombing and rushing to get married even though he lived his entire divorce with me but manipulated me into thinking i didnt trust him he was over her…..To then rushing off to get married just less then a year after his last split was final and only a month after he finished paying her support. When he said everything was my fault i got help and as i started figuring out that it wast me I would confront him and then the emotional and verbal abuse was getting worse.
    He would say hes exhausted and i would say that hes exhausting himself by paying fo everything and trying to keep up this image. I knew it wasn’t me. Even people would say something is off about him and that they couldn’t connect whit him. It all makes sense now.
    The papers are filed and now and Hes already starting all this retaliation and pulling my emotional strings by emailing me ” i worry about you”, which i feel is projection that he is worried about himself cause i know he doesn’t care about me.
    I wrote him a long email pointing everything out and he said he “didnt want to be with someone who had all these allegations against him”…….of course he would change it to be about him.
    His mask slipped and everything fell apart only a few months into the marriage….the child and mommy issues came out and he is a monster. Your videos are helping but also frightening at the same time. It seems that my divorce is only going to get worse. Do you have any advise to help me going through my divorce.? He has been through one already. …..Hes sick and twisted and this is so weird to realize all of this.

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