Do you want to know why you are dating a Narcissist? Have you dated more than one Narcissist?
Are you curious as to why?
In this video I go over what I feel to be the most profound and eye-opening question I’ve come across so far in my journey toward both understanding and healing.
Like most people, I’d heard the theory that we tend to date people that are like our parents. Some of the people I’ve dated had good qualities of either my mom or dad, and some had some of their not so great qualities. While I found that to be interesting, I didn’t really find it helpful in choosing better partners.
Then recently, I came across a great question that I feel really made everything make so much more sense.
This was such an aha moment for me–and the missing piece when it came to understanding why I was attracted to Narcissistic men. Seriously, this question was the missing piece in the puzzle for me, and I really think it will help to shine a light on some things for you too.
Let me know what you think of this question, and any aha moments it may have given you!
My goal is to educate, empower, and inspire other abuse victims in understanding more about what happened to them (and how to prevent it from happening again), as well as how to go on and rebuild an amazing life.
Even though I have had a lot of "in the trenches" experience with highly manipulative people of all kinds, I consider myself to be a student of Narcissism, mindset, motivation, healing, and life in general, and am by no means an expert on any of these topics.
It's for these reasons, that when you are reading my information that I encourage you to hold to what helps, and let the rest go.