In this episode of the “Ask a Question” show, “Anonymous” asks, ” Why her and not me? Is he treating her better?” Anonymous wanted to know why her former abusive partner left her for someone else. Even though he was was abusive, she still felt like she was in love with him, and was devastated when he left. He seems so happy now with this new woman, and she is wondering if perhaps she really was the problem like he was telling her all along.
I give me answer, and I hope you will too. Let’s see if we can help to give “Anonymous” along with the other viewers out there the feedback and support they need in order to move forward in getting all of the clarity, closure, and healing possible.
My goal with my videos, blog, and support groups, is to be able to start the conversation about abuse, as I believe it’s the most important conversation that isn’t being had. If you would like to join my support group please visit us at: www.NarcissistSupport.com/forum
*Disclaimer: I am not a therapist, however, I was an advocate at a domestic violence shelter for several years, and am currently a psychiatric nurse. My real experience, however, comes from my own life. I have been in several different types of abusive relationships over the past twenty years, and have gone on to rebuild my life, my self-esteem, and my sanity.
I have been able to take my experiences and not only heal from them, but to move forward and thrive, and my goal is to help others do the same.
If you are experiencing any form of abusive or “toxic” relationship, then please know that you aren’t alone; you aren’t crazy, and that you can heal from this.
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My goal is to educate, empower, and inspire other abuse victims in understanding more about what happened to them (and how to prevent it from happening again), as well as how to go on and rebuild an amazing life.
Even though I have had a lot of "in the trenches" experience with highly manipulative people of all kinds, I consider myself to be a student of Narcissism, mindset, motivation, healing, and life in general, and am by no means an expert on any of these topics.
It's for these reasons, that when you are reading my information that I encourage you to hold to what helps, and let the rest go.