Is it me or is it him? Am I being unreasonable? I am so confused. I dated this wonderful guy for six months. We’ve been on and off. Every time we have a disagreement he gives me the silent treatment. He’s a christian and he goes to church. But he’s always telling me about how the women in his church like him but he isn’t interested in them. We recently got back together and everything was going fine until this woman called his phone and he put it on speakerphone so I could hear the conversation. She seemed really upset and asked him why he didn’t tell her he had a girlfriend. This was the second time she called and I grabbed the phone and told her, “Yes, I am his girlfriend and we’ve been together for six months.” He was calm and explained that she was upset because she wanted more than a friendship with him. I’m not sure what to think. But I don’t think he’s being honest with me. I’m still upset and I told him about it but he doesn’t want me to bring it up. He acts like it never happened. I’m feeling angry and frustrated most of the time. I told him to stop calling me so he did. He does not care about my feelings and now I’m concerned he’s a narcissist. How do I know for sure he’s a narcissist? I know for sure he’s a liar.
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