In this episode, the question is asked, “How do I divorce an evil woman?”
I am married to an evil and hateful woman. She didn’t start off this way. When we were dating she was so good to me. She always made time for me and made me my favorite meals. And she encouraged me to spend time with my friends. Once we got married everything changed. She’s made the last 20 years of my life a living hell. Only our children see how awful she is. She is active in our church and volunteers all the time. She hasn’t worked a day in the past 20 years while I’ve worked two jobs to support our family. It’s not like she was a stay at home mom which I would have totally supported. Our kids were in daycare before school and then after school. I found out that she’s racked up over $75,000 in credit card debt that I knew nothing about. She’s refinanced our house; all the equity is gone. I’ve waited to leave until our children were grown and moved out. I’m ready to leave her but I’m scared of what she’s going to do. How do I divorce a woman like this?
My goal is to educate, empower, and inspire other abuse victims in understanding more about what happened to them (and how to prevent it from happening again), as well as how to go on and rebuild an amazing life.
Even though I have had a lot of "in the trenches" experience with highly manipulative people of all kinds, I consider myself to be a student of Narcissism, mindset, motivation, healing, and life in general, and am by no means an expert on any of these topics.
It's for these reasons, that when you are reading my information that I encourage you to hold to what helps, and let the rest go.