Red Flag of a Narcissist #23: Intelligent

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Many Narcissists are incredibly intelligent. They may even be at the top of their field, or perhaps you feel that they are really underachieving considering how intelligent they are.

They may tell  you all about their degrees, their advanced military service, or other elaborate stories that paint them to be a highly regarded, and highly intelligent person. But don’t be too quick to assume that everything they are telling you is the truth–if they are a manipulative person, or have a history of lying, then the one thing you can count on is that they aren’t telling  you the truth!

If you spend enough time with them you may start to realize that they always seem to get their way–it’s like they can talk their way into, or out of, almost any situation. At first this may seem as though they are highly intelligent, but over time you will start to wonder if their intelligence has less to do with IQ and more to do with them being a con artist (either emotionally or financially–or both).

Learn the red flags, and learn to be a few steps ahead of them.

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I am a self-help junkie, former advocate for victims of domestic violence, current psychiatric RN, as well as being a recovering victim of Narcissistic abuse.

My goal is to educate, empower, and inspire other abuse victims in understanding more about what happened to them (and how to prevent it from happening again), as well as how to go on and rebuild an amazing life.

Even though I have had a lot of "in the trenches" experience with highly manipulative people of all kinds, I consider myself to be a student of Narcissism, mindset, motivation, healing, and life in general, and am by no means an expert on any of these topics.

It's for these reasons, that when you are reading my information that I encourage you to hold to what helps, and let the rest go.
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I am a self-help junkie, former advocate for victims of domestic violence, current psychiatric RN, as well as being a recovering victim of Narcissistic abuse. My goal is to educate, empower, and inspire other abuse victims in understanding more about what happened to them (and how to prevent it from happening again), as well as how to go on and rebuild an amazing life. Even though I have had a lot of "in the trenches" experience with highly manipulative people of all kinds, I consider myself to be a student of Narcissism, mindset, motivation, healing, and life in general, and am by no means an expert on any of these topics. It's for these reasons, that when you are reading my information that I encourage you to hold to what helps, and let the rest go.

4 Comments

  1. Check out Thomas Sheridan at http://www.thomassheridanarts.com.
    A site about psychopaths.
    And Mark Passios work on satanism and natural law is interesting.
    To get a grip on their World view.
    http://truthserumnews.com/category/religion/
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mqb08yzUOck
    Mark Passio Newest Interview We Live In A Satanic Minded Society

    More information in general about humanitys situation:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oOYTHg8cadY
    MARK PASSIO: STREET-WISE SPIRITUALITY

    http://www.disclose.tv/action/viewvideo/195782/The_Golden_Age_of_Psychopathy_Mass_Predation_of_an_Abulic_Modern_Society__by_Jarrod_D_Schneider/

  2. Omg Dana. I’ve been listening to your blogs since Saturday night. I can’t believe how upset yet relieved I feel .. I have been struggling for past 3.5 years out of a 4.5 year relationship with who i originally thought was my soul mate .. The constant confusion & heart ache I have dealt with has been incredible. I wouldn’t know which red flag to start with to begin to explain the situation as this terrifying truth of narcissism now brings me to tears .. I’ve just cut him off & I’m wanting this to be the last time in my life. The pain of it comes in torrents of crashing waves & listening to your clips have awakened my worst fears.. Thank you so very much for speaking up regarding this . I have felt empty , overcome with madness & dispair until I’ve heard your red flag warnings on narsisism. I m just baffled as to where my sanity went the past 4 years with not listening to my inner voice & intuition & also my dearest friends warning me.. How did I allow myself to continue in this type of relationship? – You are giving me strength to work through this .. Thank you again . Meghan

  3. I’m so glad that my videos and blog have helped so much! I totally know that feeling of being lost in the fog. I’m glad you are finding your way out. (((HUGS))) …Please consider joining the support group if you haven’t already! Support Group

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