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I am a self-help junkie, former advocate for victims of domestic violence, current psychiatric RN, as well as being a recovering victim of Narcissistic abuse.

My goal is to educate, empower, and inspire other abuse victims in understanding more about what happened to them (and how to prevent it from happening again), as well as how to go on and rebuild an amazing life.

Even though I have had a lot of "in the trenches" experience with highly manipulative people of all kinds, I consider myself to be a student of Narcissism, mindset, motivation, healing, and life in general, and am by no means an expert on any of these topics.

It's for these reasons, that when you are reading my information that I encourage you to hold to what helps, and let the rest go.
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I am a self-help junkie, former advocate for victims of domestic violence, current psychiatric RN, as well as being a recovering victim of Narcissistic abuse. My goal is to educate, empower, and inspire other abuse victims in understanding more about what happened to them (and how to prevent it from happening again), as well as how to go on and rebuild an amazing life. Even though I have had a lot of "in the trenches" experience with highly manipulative people of all kinds, I consider myself to be a student of Narcissism, mindset, motivation, healing, and life in general, and am by no means an expert on any of these topics. It's for these reasons, that when you are reading my information that I encourage you to hold to what helps, and let the rest go.

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  1. interesting comments on being exhausted and sick… (me too) mine had a POA written up and wills, mine left everything to him, his left all his to his kids..I was paying for the life insurance policy… once i realised I might not walk out alive of my relationship did I decide to leave and file for divorce.

  2. I’m glad that you began seeing his behavior for the highly problematic (and suspicious) behavior that it was–and I’m glad you got out of there.

    I wish you all the health, healing, and happiness in this next chapter in your life. (((hugs)))

  3. Thanks, I am out of the house now and we are fighting through a divorce, so I am still having to deal with him but hopefully that will be done soon and I plan to go far away to heal. Your videos have been a life saver through this process of realising and trying to leave.

  4. I’m so glad my videos have been helping. …If you haven’t already joined the support group (or at least checked it out) you may want to do that: http://www.NarcissistSupport.com/forum I think you’ll find it’s a great place to go and vent and get feedback 24/7. (((hugs))) to you, and I wish you all the health, healing, and happiness in this next chapter of your life. <3

  5. Hi Dana….You have been a blessing to me!…15 years of a relationship to a married man who stated his wife and him were just business partners and I accepted they were only business partners…well, finally met her in the hospital during his cancer surgery. She asked to speak to me..and the truth was heard…he strung her along all these years and lied to me…mind you, we lived together for 4 years…PLUS..after I ended the relationship After staying with him to help him heal from extensive throat surgery, I was told that I was not the only “girlfriend”…Ughhhhhh…I was so blind..actually isolated from “his daily life” due to “respect for wife at work”….this is just a DROP of what I have been through…I started googling his behavior years ago…..My goodness…I have been through hell…He was so “different” and I found myself scratching my head alot! My entire family saw it years ago and all I did was make excuses and protect and, of course, isolate myself….It has been 3 1/2 months..he did call me one week later..argument evolved and he hung up on me…then, received a text at Christmas…holier then thou, and it ruined me for a few days…I did not reply….GRAYROCK…Right!…He is a sick man..I have seen it for years and know now that he will not change and I do not trust a thing out of his mouth, which is what I told him the day I told him to leave….I have sooooo much more to say, but do not want to exhaust my time with you,,,,Your videos have been SO REASSURING that it was not ME!..My gut was right…Sorry gut, I did not listen..I am 61 years old and see the damage he has done..I am determined to heal…I apologize to God for wishing him ill health…I have never hated a person in my life…Love/hate…now I get it…I was addicted to him…I would love to here from you and I am so thankful I watched and could totally relate to your discussions…shades of grey yet some points sent chills down my spine…..Much love to you and THANK YOU

  6. I’m so glad my site and videos could help give you the clarity and validation that you were seeking. …Your relationship sounds a lot like mine, in that it went from fairy tale to Lifetime TV movie at the drop of a hat! These people are often incredibly charming and convincing, and promise the world, but leave nothing but a trail of hurt and heartache behind them. I know all this is painful, but I’m glad that you now see his awful behavior for what it is and that you are moving forward into health, healing, and happiness.

    If you haven’t already joined the support group, you may want to consider doing so. I think you’ll find it’s really helpful for continued validation: http://www.NarcissistSupport.com/forum
    (((hugs)))

  7. Hey Dana, I’ve recently found your stuff on Youtube, through Spartan Lifecoach. You both are so helpful for my healing process. First thank you! I’ve been writing so many comments on things as I watch!

    I’d also like my 73 year old computer illiterate and doesn’t read much mother to be helped by this too. Can you put your series on DVD or have you? I’ve looked for links on here and didn’t see any. I know my mom would be able to put this on, and go about her place cooking and cleaning and be able to listen to you. I think she’d relate to how you describe things and you tell it in words I think she’d understand more than any youtube videos on this I’ve seen. It’s hard to put stuff this complex into words a majority of people can understand. I try to tell her what I’ve learned and I don’t have the right words for her half the time. She’s still learning little by little through what I am, but I also get frustrated trying to teach her things she’s not wanting to see just yet. So maybe if she has something she might watch again and again to understand it and hear other people other than me tell similar stories things will click more and more in her head. She’s also procrastinating getting therapy which I know will help. I can only do so much to push her along though. Thought maybe if I could find good DVD’s for her that maybe that will help more than me blabbering on πŸ˜‰

  8. Hmm…I”ll have to think about how to make that happen! …Does your mom watch YouTube or listen to Podcasts? Maybe you could turn the playlist on and let it run? I’m really glad that you are finding so much clarity in my videos. That really makes my heart smile. (((HUGS))) to you and your mom. <3

  9. She has no computer, tablets, or even a cell phone that is smart πŸ˜‰ It’s one of those old flip phones and she barely knows how to use it.

    So if you don’t think you’ll get them on DVD I’ll just play her one a day over the phone or when she comes visit have her listen too. It’ll work out. I just thought maybe I’d ask just in case πŸ˜€

    I actually played one for her today over the phone and it worked out well. Mom said she loved hearing your voice and how you explained things. That you sounded like a really nice person and she would definitely listen to more from you! <3

    *hugs back* Thank you!

  10. Big Howdy from down under.

    I just spent this afternoon going through Youtube looking for info. I couldn’t find anything that gelled with me so I went back to Google Search and found you under “good videos on Narcissism”.(thats what I typed as a search).

    Ive watched the first four videos and Im really impressed with the style of your videos.

    Your communication style is intelligent and insightful yet you don’t sound like some of those monotone , robotic “experts” who are like the Youtube equivalent of a giant Xanax.

    Alot of people can’t use notes and keep their communication style natural. You however have kept your teaching style quite extemporaneous and It cones across as if your’e sitting in the same room having a chat.

    4 Down and 47 to go…..can’t wait. Thanks heaps for putting it out there and keep up the good work.

    Cheers.

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