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Explaining Narcissists

An example of “hoovering” from my own life

May 23, 2015 Dana 10

The vast majority of Narcissists utilize a manipulation technique called “Hoovering.” Hoovering is where they try to “suck” their victim back into the relationship by reopening communication in (usually) some small and unassuming, or even […]

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Explaining Narcissists

Do Narcissists Commit Suicide?

May 2, 2015 Dana 12

Narcissists really are ridiculous human beings once you see their manipulations and lies for the nonsense that they are. One of the more ridiculous ploys of a Narcissist is the “Feel sorry for me because I’m […]

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Videos

How Does a Hoovering Narcissist Act?

April 30, 2015 Dana 4

How Does a Hoovering Narcissist Act? Hoovering is a common manipulation technique done by many forms of highly manipulative people, and (unfortunately) comes with the territory as far as Narcissistic relationships are concerned. There are […]

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Explaining Narcissists

Can a Narcissist Change?

April 25, 2015 Dana 2

Can a Narcissist Change? My guess is that if you are reading this blog post, then you have a significant other who is selfish, lacks empathy and remorse, and lies about everything. My other guess […]

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Explaining Narcissists

Narcissists and Common Hoovering Techniques

March 15, 2015 Dana 26

What is hoovering? Hoovering is a technique that is named after the Hoover vacuum cleaner, and is used by Narcissists (and other manipulative people) in order to “suck” their victims back into a relationship with […]

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How to Heal

Going No Contact with a Narcissist

March 8, 2015 Dana 10

The hardest part for me fully ending (both) my Narcopath relationship was going “No Contact”. In part because I missed him, and was still in love with the man I thought I knew. It takes […]